We are in the process of moving. We have been living in a 2 bedroom house for the last 4 years. Yes, all three of my kids share a room. When they were smaller it did not seem like such a big deal. But as their little bodies grow and they actually take up more space, it has begun to feel more crowded in our little house. We have struggled to find a place for everyone to do their homework, and work, and cooking. Learning to live together is a process.
Last night some friends had us over for dinner. They are here short term and live in an even smaller house. More like a 2 bedroom apartment. Much smaller than our place. They also have three kids… they all share one room. They also home-school their kids. Can you feel how cramped their place must feel??
Their Albanian landlord lives in the apartment above them. It has an identical floor plan to their apartment.
Their 2 grown sons (in their 20s) also live with them.
Both of those sons are married and their wives live there too.
One of the is expecting a baby.
Three couples, two bedroom apartment, one baby on the way.
In no way, can I compare the complexities of learning to live together as a family of 5, with what they are doing, learning to live together as three families…. with more on the way. I still have a lot to learn about living together.